You may be at a point in your marriage or relationship where the love and connection you once felt seem like distant memories. Daily interactions are more like battlegrounds than bonding moments, and instead of growing together, you’re drifting apart and wondering if things will ever change.
For many, it’s not just the daily friction but deeper wounds—broken promises, breaches of trust, or even the devastation of infidelity—that have shaken the foundation of your relationship. You may feel like strangers living “alone together,” uncertain if real repair is even possible.
And when life gets busy, especially for couples with young children, finding any time to nurture each other feels impossible.
You’re exhausted, and so is your relationship.
These challenges don’t just go away on their own. Patterns of conflict, distance, and pain are often deeply rooted and take real, intentional work to heal—and that’s where Relational Life Therapy can help.
We help you work through past trauma together, creating a level of empathy and connection that transforms how you see each other and yourself.
We move beyond just insight to give you concrete tools for maintaining intimacy and resolving conflict long after therapy ends.
We guide you in rediscovering the love and connection that brought you together, fostering a deeper bond and a renewed sense of partnership that lasts.
Relational Life Therapy Texas is a pioneering online couples therapy practice built on the transformative approach of Relational Life Therapy.
We specialize in empowering couples and individuals to work through unresolved trauma, learn powerful relational skills, and build deeply connected, loving relationships.
Explore how our online counseling programs can transform your marriage or relationship and nurture deep, meaningful change that lasts.
Address the deeper patterns holding your relationship back. Repair and grow together, learning new ways to communicate, resolve conflict, and reconnect.
Transform how you see yourself and others through compassionate counseling, inner child work, and essential relational skills.
Transformational all-day therapy sessions over one or two days to accelerate breakthroughs that repair and restore lasting connection in your relationship.
Take your relationship from “good” to “great” by gaining the relational skills and guidance you need to grow together, sustain intimacy, and enjoy a lifelong partnership.
Relational Life Therapy is couples counseling that equips you with tools to overcome destructive patterns and repair disconnection, for true intimacy and enduring love.
Develop clear, healthy boundaries that protect your sense of self while nurturing connection with others.
Reconfigure destructive levels of grandiosity or shame, and develop a strong internal sense of worth.
Live in connection—with yourself, your loved ones, and the world around you.
Are You Stuck in a Cycle of Miscommunication, Disconnection,
or Unresolved Conflict?
Whether you and your partner are seeking profound relationship change, you’re an individual recovering from past trauma or a couple in crisis—our therapists will guide you toward lasting connection, deep healing, and the fulfilling relationships you deserve.
Hear from those who’ve experienced profound relational change through Relational Life Therapy—building healthier relationships with themselves and others.
“. . .the couples work that you do is so valuable — we are relating now in a wholly new and expansive way. It’s what each of us knew we were missing but could not have found on our own. Thank you so much!”
“Some of the things I love about Terry Real and his work are the practical steps, down-to-earth guidance and his model of having the courage and respect to be honest with couples when one partner is behaving in a way that needs to be addressed first.”
“Thank you for introducing me to the real Mark, and for introducing him to himself. I am happier in our relationship then I have been in many many years. I use the strategies you taught us with Mark as well as with my siblings and friends. They work! If we never found someone willing to be straight and honest we would not be together, that much I know. Your honesty about Mark allowed me to stand down. Now that I am able to stand down I am able to try to be the person I want to be in this relationship.”
“Some of the things I love about Terry Real and his work are the practical steps, down-to-earth guidance and his model of having the courage and respect to be honest with couples when one partner is behaving in a way that needs to be addressed first.”
“The practical and positive approach of RLT has helped my clients see change almost immediately. By weaving past trauma and its impact on relationships and by building new skills together, my clients have expressed new deep and meaningful connections. RLT is not just a training program, it is a community that works in unity to offer ongoing support to therapists as well as clients.”
“I have found that most couples really want a relationship that works for both people and they have no idea how to make that happen. Once they learn that implementing a set of learned skills can achieve their goal, the majority of couples are willing to do things differently. They become empowered to change!”
Imagine a marriage or relationship where you and your partner feel seen, valued, and deeply connected.
Relational Life Therapy Texas offers compassionate counseling to help you move beyond conflict and disconnection to live skilled relational lives that breed closeness, trust, & joy.
Discover how Relational Life Therapy Texas can help you and your partner recover from unresolved trauma, think like a team, and foster genuine intimacy.
Want To Learn The Skills That Create Lifelong INtimacy?
May 17th and 18th, 2025
San Antonio, TX
